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It’s Your Moment – Make it or Miss it

A new future is waiting to emerge for you and your business. You will experience The Vujá dé Moment when you crack open the door of your mind and expose yourself to a fresh wind of new possibilities that were created in the midst of uncertainty.

Tom Foster, a writer for Inc. Magazine, tells a brilliant story about Nick Woodman who was frustrated that pro surfers were limited by the photos they could capture while surfing. Nick decided to create a wrist strap that held a disposable camera firmly in place on a person’s arm.

When one was ready to take the picture of a friend surfing, all you had to do was pivot the camera to snap the photo. GoPro has sold over 800,000 cameras and is the fastest-growing camera company in the world. What happened to Kodak? Did they miss their moment? Only time will tell.

Vujá dé is, in essence, using a fresh set of eyes to see the same thing everyone else sees, but in a unique way. In a marketplace crowded with competition, plagued by challenges, and ruled by change, taking a fresh approach is the only key to survival. It’s your moment. Make it happen.

Live Brilliantly,

Simon T. Bailey

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Repression Be Gone

O, Brilliant One, it’s 3 a.m. and I am writing you a personal note to remind you that your brilliance has been repressed long enough.

I sense, deep within the ocean of your soul, there is a submarine of possibility waiting to emerge from the waters of limitation. In fact, every now and then, you allow the periscope of your mind to sneak a peek above the surface to see if it’s safe.

I see you in your future, and you look better there than you do today. I call you “O, Brilliant One” because you possess something unique inside of you—something that will point you to what you were born to do. Yes, you’ve heard that before.

But society can drown out your voice with advertisements of what you can’t do instead of what you can do. You have to decide what you intend to do instead of listening to what you can’t be, do, or become.  In fact, according to a Barna study, one out of three adults says they feel they are living beneath their potential.

Are you living the best life you can right now? Or is your future bleak?

Repression is a vice-grip of unverbalized fears and excessive worry that causes a person to be small and live small.   Dr. Christian Mirescu, of Princeton University’s Department of Psychology, says, “When the brain is worried, it’s just thinking about survival. It isn’t interested in investing in new cells for the future.”

New cells, my friend, are what grow your brain.

When you start growing, you start living, and when you start living, you start believing—and when you start believing, you kick-start your own hope to go for it. Mitch Albom, author of Tuesdays With Morrie (a fascinating book), says,  “All successful people who have had great success are lacking in one thing: fear. Most people stop themselves before they start because they’re afraid. They quit before trying to do something.”

Repression doesn’t disappear overnight. But it will decrease as you work to increase positive daily thoughts of what you can do. James Allen, author of “As a Man Thinketh,” wrote, “Whatever your present environment may be, you will fall, remain, or rise with your thoughts, your Vision, your Ideal. You will become as small as your controlling desire; as great as your dominant aspiration.”Or, to put it another way, you’ve got to grab control of the steering wheel of your life and drive into your future, instead of being driven by everyone and everything else.

Be Brilliant!

Simon

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Daddy, I need to hear your voice

Women have two problems with men. (I can almost hear a few ladies saying “only two?” with a smirk.) The two key issues are that, as men, we don’t talk and rarely listen. When we do talk it is all about us, and when we listen we have selective hearing. Well, this couldn’t be farther from truth in this next instance.

My father had to have surgery and I decided to fly up to Buffalo,New York to be with him. I won’t bore you with the details, but he made it through with flying colors. Thank goodness. On the day prior to his discharge, we were just sitting in the hospital room and all of a sudden my father starts talking to me.

It was way deeper than sports, weather, politics, or economy. Someone or something turned on a faucet inside of him and for the next three hours we had one of the most meaningful dialogues that I have ever experienced in my life. My Daddy did more than communicate, he connected with me. He looked me in the eyes and gave me an oral history of our family for the last 100 years.

Now, my Dad is a man’s man. I have never seen him break down, but he broke down twice while talking to me about leaving Jamaica to come to America at 19 years of age as a migrant worker picking oranges in Florida. Then he went to Perry,NY along with another migrant worker to pick up apples.  You would think that I would know this history, but I didn’t. I’ve been working since I was 12 years old and really didn’t know my family. His talking to me filled in so many blanks in me attempting to understand why I have a free, cavalier, and often independent spirit. It’s because of him.

Some might say, perhaps you need to go and see a shrink. It’s all good. I am okay. This is one of those moments that caught this “A-type- control freak” personality of mine by surprise.

What so amazing about this is that for the last twenty-five years since leaving Buffalo,NY to carve out my own path, I have talked to my parents just about every Sunday evening, our conversations are short, sweet and non-emotional.  I know for some that this might be TMI (Too Much Information), but I have been waiting for the last twenty-five years for my father to peel back the layers of his masculinity and for once be emotionally available. Is it a sign of weakness? Hardly, I believe it’s a sign of strength.

Those three hours of talking, listening, and sharing with my Pops left me speechless. I know you find that hard to believe. I just had to get up and walk around the hospital to clear my mind. In those three hours, he filled in so many blanks. He told me that when I was 7 years old I would say that I would write a book. He told me what he saw in me. He closed the loop in sharing what was in our family DNA. He told me that my Grandfather, his father, was a brilliant man with a sharp mind. I never met him. I wish I could’ve. A part of me has always sensed that there was a missing piece to my life’s puzzle.

He filled in the blanks and in an instant built a bridge from the past to the present. The most touching moment was on the ride from the hospital I sat in the back seat with my Dad. I was sitting reminiscing with arrows of emotions shooting through me wondering did my Daddy ever hold my hand when I was growing up. I am sure he did. Nevertheless this 40+ year old man reached over and grabbed my Daddy’s hand. I don’t know why I did. I could hear Luther Vandross singing in the symphony hall of my soul – Dance with my father.

For fifteen minutes on the ride home, I held my 70 year old father’s hand and I got it. It clicked. As a father of two incredible children, I realized the heavy sense of responsibility to help them uncover their  purpose and identity.

When we arrived home, I made sure that my Pops was okay. He turned to me and said “Son, I am so glad that you came.” In that moment, my Dad hugged me with his words. WOW… I didn’t know that I needed to know that my visit really mattered to him. He then did what was most profound… my Daddy put his hand on my shoulder and closed his eyes and started talking to God. It was like he was a friend of God. He said “God, thank you for Simon, please watch over him and his family. Keep him in all of his ways.” My Daddy talked to God about me. As a result, I know everything is going to be just fine.

I stood frozen and leaned over this 5’7’’ 140lb giant of man and kissed him on his forehead. I said to myself, “That’s my Daddy. He doesn’t belong to anyone else. That’s my Daddy. That’s my friend.”  I don’t know how much time my Dad has here on earth. But one thing is for sure, if he should depart Earth, I know beyond a shadow of doubt that he loves me. That’s all I’ve ever wanted to know, that I mattered to him and to hear his voice let me know that he loved me as well.

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Leave a Dent in Your Company Universe

We are living in a time when individuals working for a legacy brand company must find a way to stand head and shoulders above the noisy marketplace. These men and women who seek to escape the sea of sameness have awaken to the fact that tenure alone doesn’t guarantee future employment. In spirit of Jerry Maguire “show me the money” or better yet deliver the results and survive for another quarter.

As a twenty year sales professional, in the early part of my career, I often thought that brand name of the company would sell itself and as a clip board hugger, my job was to write the order, probe lightly by talking about family, weather and sports, then get out of these as quickly as possible. Then, one day my boss told me that I was losing market-share and that the big guys from corporate were scrutinizing individual production of salespeople in the field. Suddenly I realized that producing was not going to be a walk in the park.

I needed to become a mini-brand first as a sales professional and soon to be a sales leader representing a major brand – The Walt Disney Company which was a $63 Billion dollar juggernaut with over 150,000 employees worldwide.   It reminds of the quote from author Seth Godin – “A brand is a way of identifying and communicating what makes you a star and using those qualities to separate yourself from the herd will increase your success.”

Here are the four insights on how to leave a dent in your company universe:

Stop selling and Start connecting- You have two ears and one mouth and that is for a reason. Listen twice as much as your talk. Okay, that’s old and has been around for a while. However, here is the 21st century spin on this thinking – selling is transaction but authentic connecting leads to a relationship. My friend Jeffrey Gitomer says that “no likes to be sold anything but they do like to buy.” Learn how to connect through questions, research, curiosity and strategy which further deepens the relationship.

Have you ever met someone whose information was a mile long but an inch deep. After probing for a while, you realized that they didn’t know any more than you did. However, the individuals that intentionally did the hard work, went to the meetings, kept at it long after everyone was gone home for the evening became the go to person for XYZ company. Why? When no one was looking they were preparing mentally to become the best of the best.

Many people join a company and like the fact of being responsible for their results. However, those who rise to the top in professional and non-professional roles find a way to extend themselves to their team mates. By lending a hand to complete an assignment, execute an initiative, or share best practices. Nevertheless, it is the emotional commitment to go the extra mile without keeping score but supporting them because it is right.

Establish a Mental Fitness Plan – Leaders are readers and readers are leaders. Decide you intend to grow the economy of your mind. Taking time to learn, grow, and having courage to bounce back are the critical keys to establishing a positive imprint as a sales or non-sales professional.  Carve out crucial time to create a new muscle memory that will be benefit you for days to come. Take care of yourself so that you can take care of others.

Making a dent in the Universe of your company is a daily decision that requires daily action. Make today count and Be Brilliant!

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Thrive – 3 Insights to Shift from Average to Brilliant

The verdict is in and reputable thought leaders such as George Celente, Director of Trend Research Institute, are saying “the economy is hitting the wall in slow motion in 2012.” He states “we provide the hard data and indisputable facts that support our forecast for an unsettling future. There will be opportunities to seize and measures to take to withstand, and even profit in the increasing turbulent times.”

Just when you thought the global economic tsunami was subsiding and happy days were returning to the shores of our world, we are hit with a crosswind of bad news. What is one to do? In the movie The Adventures of TinTin, a brilliant story by Steven Spielberg and Peter Jackson (Lord of the Rings Trilogy), TinTin, a sleuth, says to Captain Haddock, his cohort in the movie, “what do you do when you face a wall ?  You push through it.”

That’s right, I want to invite you to push through and create your future. This year I am going to teach you how to shift from average to brilliant. Here are 12 insights for you to upload into your mind and heart drive:

Upgrade your Skills – Companies and Businesses that will thrive in 21st century are cultivating four skill clusters – Digital-age literacy (such as grasping economic concepts), Inventive thinking (such as Self-Direction – the ability to work independently), Effective Communication (such as interpersonal skills), and High Productivity (which is prioritizing, planning and managing for results).  It’s time for you to shift from average to brilliant.

Find Your Lane and Work it – You may not have the ability, talent, or gift of Shakespeare, Einstein, Usain Bolt, or Lady GaGa. Don’t sweat it. Your gift is one that needs to be uncovered and mastered. What do you do well, what do people compliment you on, when you are operating at the optimal level what are you doing? That’s your lane. Learn all that you can. Be curious about everything in your lane. In high school, I thought I wanted to be an accountant, but a teacher reminded me that I have a communication gift. WOW…thank you Mrs. Rita Lankes.  More shifting into brilliance!

Bust the Paradigm – In the Scientific field, a pattern, example, or sample is considered to be a paradigm. A paradigm shift occurs when a new thought, idea, product/service or meme is introduced which challenges the previous mindset, way of experiencing or doing something. For instance in 1978 Masaru Ibuka introduces the Sony Walkman which at the time was all the rage and was flying off the shelves of retail stores. On October 23rd, 2001 (30+ days after 9/11), we are introduced to the grandchild of the Sony Walkman – Apple’s iPod. This invention disrupts the entire music industry paradigm and forever shifts the way music is consumed. Assess where you are and decide to be a Paradigm Buster.

I want you to thrive and live a life of no regrets. In the midst of waiting for the other shoe to drop in the European  economy, the second wind of the Occupy Movement, and the schizophrenic leadership of the  United States Congress on both sides of the aisles, we must dig in our heels in and push through walls of limitation. On the other side are new possibilities that await those who determine to shift from average thinking to brilliant living. Thank you to the trend analysts, economists, and futurists. You have given us the hard data to write the new software code for a bright future.

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Celebrate Your Crumbs

Recently, I was being interviewed by Total Package Women’s Network. A caller asked, “what do you do when your internal picture of future success is the total opposite of your current reality? How do continue to push yourself forward when everything that you are hearing  says stop spending, hold  on to your job or business  and wait for the U. S. Congress to share how they can save the freefalling economy through tax increase and tax cuts?”

In an instant, I said that you have to take the crumbs of your life and realize that there is a loaf of opportunity awaiting you. If that is true, then there must be a bakery where you can scale your brilliance and impact the world.

In a new study by the Barna Group, it states that one out of every three adults in the United States of America say they are not living life to their fullest potential, including those who say they are “not at all” (6%) or “not much” (26%) . The study then went on to say that 70 million Americans (31% of adults) feel “held back or defined by something in their past.”

If you have settled for the life you have instead of the one you desire, then it’s your own fault. If you are held back because of “whatever”, either you deal with it or you will continue to loathe the crumbs of life. Bring me your crumbs and let me show you how to turn it into something you’ve never seen before.

The first 22 years of my life were crummy and without a lot of possibilities. But one day I heard about Jesus Christ and became a follower. I am totally cool with Jesus, however, some of the members of his fan club freak me out. I gave him the crumbs of a boring existence, crumbs of rejection, crumbs of dejection, oppression, depression, and suppression. He said “I am the bread of life”.  WOW… someone that knows what to do with crumbs!

Bring me your crumbs.  Some people have settled for the crumbs of an unfulfilling marriage that is holding on by a thread. Why? Either be in it to win it or free the person to a happier life. If you are divorced, pick up the crumbs of brokenness and bake some bread. Don’t allow your past to strangle your future.

I was in New York City and decided to witness Occupy Wall St. with my own set of eyes. Though I didn’t necessarily agree with the protesters,  I clearly understood their perspective. They were tired of pursuing the crumbs of finding a job, owning a home, and building a meaningful life to no avail.

As I am writing this e-newsletter, I sense that some of you don’t know what to do with your crumbs. In fact, you settled for the crumbs of limitation as the walls of no hope begin to close in around you.

Stop accepting the behavior crumbs of your bosses. If they don’t respect you and you don’t respect them, move on.  There are too many cool bosses to work for than to work for a total jerk.

Start developing an appetite for the spectacular instead of settling for the crumbs of the ordinary.

Stop accepting a crummy marriage relationship. Sometimes you can be married, but not marriage minded. It doesn’t help anyone in the long run.

Start looking at your spouse or significant other through the eyes of brilliance. You can’t change them, but you can change how you to choose to see them. Once that happens, you begin to change how you talk to them.

Stop accepting the crumbs of negativity that are fed to you by complainers, whiners, and people that are more negative than an undeveloped piece of film.

Start to gather the crumbs of your existence and roll it into a loaf of bread. This is a new spin that I am putting on making lemonade out of lemons. How do you like it? Send me an e-mail and let me know.

Once you make one loaf of bread, then find the bakery and do it for the rest of your life. That’s exactly what I did. I took the crumbs of being a black male in America and all the ingredients that come with it.  I rolled together the crumbs of working for six different companies, working ten different jobs in twenty-five years, and living in three different states. This became my loaf of bread which was Release Your Brilliance. After selling 17,000 copies of Release Your Brilliance out of my trunk, the back of ballrooms and to whoever would want it, I decided to sell the bakery to HarperCollins and they have now distributed my loaf of bread throughout the world in Spanish, Portuguese, in India and soon to be China.

As a result of this experience, I am now off to create a new bakery. Just remember it all started with a crumb!

Be Brilliant!

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A-Level Players have the ear of the C-Suite

In an Accountemps survey of 1,400 chief financial officers (C-suite executive), they were asked “what are your employee-retention tools once the economy improves?” 50% said promoting top performers, 48% raising salaries, 41% investing more in professional development and 32% said enhancing benefits.

Companies are revisiting and redefining their ideas about which employees are “high potential keepers/top performers.” A-Level Players are the men and women who’ve proven their relevancy to the organization through their innovation, insight and performance. Organizations prize A-Level Players because they are adaptable – they can move to other areas of the company and add value. B-Level Players have demonstrated some potential, but their productivity is inconsistent. And C-Level Players, bless their heart, are those who’ve sat on their blessed assurances like frogs in a pot of water on the fire – they can sense that the environment is heating up, but they don’t have the desire or the urgency to do something to save their skins.

In the past, workforce reductions typically involved C-Level employees. But in today’s do-more-with-less business environment, more often than not, B-Level Players are being invited to find their happiness elsewhere as they are shown the door.

Just this week, John, a friend of mine told me a compelling story. As he walked into his office one morning, his manager asked to speak with him – privately! His boss gave John the good news that he’d just received a substantial bonus. However, the boss then went on to explain that, effective that very same day, the organization was undergoing RIF actions (Reductions in Force) and that John’s counterpart in the department was being let go.

Now, that may not seem like a terribly interesting story…until I tell you that John has only been with the organization for six months (and earned a sizable bonus), while his counterpart had been there five years (and received a pink slip). Furthermore, in the performance review John received just the week before, his manager noted that John brought best-practice methods to the department and the organization, saved the company money, identified potential revenue streams, and assisted other co-workers and departments in meeting their goals. Sounds to me like John is an A-Level Player!

And what about his counterpart who was let go? John described her as a good soul and someone who was a team player, completed tasks on time and did what she was asked to do. In other words, she was a B-Level Player.

Friends, let me put the truth on the table: Being a “good” employee or manager simply isn’t enough anymore! Jim Collins says “good is the enemy of great.”

Now, let me ask you: Which type of player are you today? Which type of player do you aspire to be?

The hard truth is that most people are B-Level Players. And that’s okay – do you know why? Because you can change! With a sharpening of your skills, a change in your mindset and an adjustment of your focus, you can become an A-Level Player. Furthermore, due to differences in objectives, roles and responsibilities, someone who is a B-Level Player in one organization might be an A-Level Player in another. It’s all about the right fit.

If you want to move up in your organization, make more money, earn some recognition and achieve a sense of accomplishment, then rid yourself of all forms of mediocrity. If you spend much of your time looking busy instead of effective or important in front of the boss, or politicking for advancement or a bigger raise, you might want to rethink what you’re doing. Otherwise, before long, you may be looking for another job.

A-Level Players are relevant and have the ears of the C-Suite *(CEO, COO, CFO, CMO, CLO, CIO and CTO). They are entrepreneurial-minded in all they do. High potential people are the CEOs of their jobs – they take ownership and make things happen instead of waiting to be told what to do. A-Level players have radical insight and ask, “What if?” or “Is there a better way to achieve the goal?” They think strategically and innovatively about ways to generate revenue, save money and create efficiency.

A-Level Players are invited to special luncheons with the C-Suite and placed on special task forces to advance the strategic direction of the company. A-Level Players are known by name and have become a brand within a brand. They are known for results and don’t have to pound the table to get recognition. A-Level Players are mentored by C-Suite because they are seen as future leaders. A-level Players “get the big picture”, they don’t have to be told it a thousand times. They have a clear line of sight as to where they fit, where their team fits and where the organization is going. No one has to babysit them and hold their hand.

A-level Players have outgrown the adult day care center, while B-Level Players have the potential to walk on two legs but sometimes crawl, and C-Level Players are waiting for someone to pick them up and carry them. I am sure by now that you get the picture.

And finally, top-notch employees and leaders follow the same forward-thinking principle as the great hockey player Wayne Gretzky, who said: “I skate to where the puck is going to be, not to where it is.”

How can you become an A-Level Employee?

Identify ways to make or save the organization money.
Propose a better way of completing a task or process.
Determine how you can integrate the various “hats you wear” into a strategic role that touches several parts of the organization.
Raise your hand and take on the project that no one else wants.
Execute consistently – follow up and follow through. Don’t allow projects to die on the vine.
How can you become an A-Level Manager?

Coach your A-Level Employees for retention, your B-Level Employees for performance, and your C-Level Employees to find their happiness elsewhere.
Teach your team how the finances work in your organization. Enhance their financial intelligence so they can contribute to the bottom line.
Give a portion of your bonus to those staff members who assist you in achieving your goals. (I suppose HR might shoot down this idea because C-Level Employees could cry discrimination…oh well, it was a good thought. Laugh…I did.)
Make a commitment to read Fast Company, Wired, Fortune Magazine, Harvard Business Review and download any of the TED talks. It will give you incredible insights into how to be an innovator in your organization.If you’re performing multiple roles in a do-more-with-less corporate culture, consider it a blessing instead of a curse. Why? If you’ll pay attention, you should be able to develop relevant insight into how to improve the business.

Every day, you have a new opportunity to demonstrate your insight and innovation. What are you waiting on? Move it. Move it.

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Reset Your Internal Thermostat

I sense that some of you have reached a fork in the road and are unsure of which direction to go in. As a Brillionaire I invite you think again. Take a deep breath, suck it up, put a smile on your face and pep in your step. You are a Brilliant Somebody that the world has never seen before and will never see again. The world is a better place because you are here.

You have invested your entire life’s saving in a dream that at times causes you to second guess your own thinking. Everything is now on the line and you are almost ready to step into the spotlight of unlimited possibility. However the gremlin of doubt, unbelief, and loneliness are chipping away at your protective wall of invincibility. Giving up and throwing in the towel is out of the question. You know that you can do it. Don’t you? I believe you can.

I am reminded of a story about a large fish that was placed in the middle of an aquarium with minnows to feed on. The fish fed to his heart’s delight. Then, the researchers placed a glass partition in the tank, dividing it in two. After the pike had eaten all of the minnows on his side of the partition, he could see the other minnows through the glass but he couldn’t get to them. He thrashed, he bumped, he bashed his body against the glass partition, but to no avail. He finally formed a belief that it was impossible for him to get to those fish. He stopped trying!Then, the researchers moved the glass partition and allowed the minnows to swim all around him.

He could smell them. He could see them. He could feel them. But he believed that those fish were no longer available to him – that they were forever locked away from him – that it was impossible for him to win. So he starved to death in the middle of an aquarium full of food.

Have you stopped trying? Have you given up? Has the air of possibility been let out of the your balloon opportunity? Everything you need to succeed is inside you and all around you. The way to access it is to form a belief – make it a behavior and then do it everyday. Yes, I know that there are people who will cause you to doubt your own sanity and stability. Be careful who you listen to. People can take you no further than where they have been themselves, however, they don’t mind dishing out advice to you. The reason I can share with you so freely and openly is that I have been through more than you care to know. Nevertheless, I am still here. I am a survivor and so are you.

Go and get your life back. Go and get your dream back. Reclaim your faith in the future. Act as if you everything is working in your favor. The moment you set your mind and heart to the thermostat of brilliance, then you will discover that the temperature will rise to the level that it’s been set. Yes, you can do it. Giving up is for those who are weak in their mind, weak in their stomach, and weak in their belief about the future. I, Simon T. Bailey will not let you give up. Why?

Someone in your future is waiting for you to make a decision at this present moment that will forever impact both of your lives

You are bigger in spirit that you realize

Your resolve and resiliency is contagious.

Be strong. The world is a much better place since you are in it and didn’t give up.
Is this hype? No. It’s an inspirational latte shot of my energy into the vein of your spirit. Will you receive it? If so, congratulations.

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Hope is the Glue to the Future You!

As I look around our world, it seems as if everything that we once believed in is unraveling at the seams. We have witnessed more uprising and revolutions in our life, than perhaps our grandparents did in their lifetime.

Now we are on the verge of emerging from an economic coma called “recession”, and we can see signs of life. Yet some companies are still struggling and downsizing. Businesses such as Tavern on the Green in New York City, which according to www.nydailynews.com “opened during the Great Depression and fell victim to this century’s crippling recession”, are closing. Perhaps you have days where you scratch your head and channel Marvin Gaye saying “what’s going on?”

Believe me, I hear you!  There is much wrong in our world, and if all you do is focus on that, things can seem pretty dismal.  But there is also much that is right in our world, and that is where I encourage you to direct your attention and energy. Don’t lose sight of all you have accomplished. Remind yourself of the value of YOU – what you have contributed to your world – your organization, your family, your community. In the words of Bing Crosby “accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative, latch on to the affirmative, don’t mess with Mr. In-Between.”

Look for the good news, and find a role model who encourages you to keep your eye on the prize.  I am not suggesting you need to get Mary Sunshine to be your mentor… you want someone who has been in the trenches and came out burned, bruised and still brilliant. That’s who I want to follow in this decade. Someone real, someone optimistic.

Well, that person for me is my life coach/mentor, Mark Chironna, who has played a significant role in my life for the last 13 years. I recently went to see him and heard him say in my hour of fear and doubt, “hope again.” It was in that moment that something shifted because of his words. I discovered that in times of change, those full of hope will embrace change and inherit the earth, while the hopeless will be forced to adapt to change just to survive.

Oh brilliant one (that would be you), this is the moment and this is the time to have hope in an age of anti-hope. Here are five ways to reinforce the seams of your future with the glue of hope:

1.   Do your best work every day no matter what is happening around you! Why? Someone is watching you and you are leading them into the future. Truett Cathy, founder of Chick-Fil-A, says “It is when we stop doing our best work that our enthusiasm for the job wanes. We must motivate ourselves to do our very best, and by our example lead others to do their best as well.”

2.   Be Wealthy in Spirit – Wealthy is not something you seek to become. It is something you discover in the reservoir of your spirit. In your spirit resides your potential, genius, insight, energy, wisdom, and power. When you are wealthy, you live from the inside out instead of the outside in. Money is currency that is attracted to the energy produced by your spirit.

3.   Shift baby Shift – When it is time to move into another dimension, you will experience a disruption and be given an invitation to break with the old so you can embrace the new. Andy Grove said it best “There is at least one point in the history of any company when you have to change dramatically to rise to the next level of performance. Miss that moment – and you start to decline.”

4.   Get Better instead of Bigger! Andy Stanley told a powerful story about when Chick-Fil-A was facing the onslaught of Boston Market a decade ago, and a group of executives were strongly encouraging Truett Cathy to expand the footprint of their restaurant chain in a nanosecond. In a meeting with all of his executives, he pounded on the table and said “if we get better at what we do, then our customers will force us to get bigger.” Are you focused on getting better or bigger?

5.   An open hand is always full – Give away what you want to attract to your life. I am convinced that it is more blessed to give than to receive. When you give without any strings attached, you experience spiritual ecstasy.  Bill Gates said “Is the rich world aware of how four billion of the six billion live? If we were aware, we would want to help out, we’d want to get involved.”  Simon says it’s time to move beyond talking about the problem… it’s time to be the solution.

I really believe that if you do any of these five you will discover that hope is the real glue to the future you.

Be Brilliant,

STB

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Flip the Script

As we hear the echoes of a double dip recession from all corners of the media, I can’t help but think about my recent trip to Buenos Aires, Argentina. I was there teaching the principles of Revela tu Brillo (Spanish version of Release Your Brilliance) to 200 human resources leaders from across the country. No, I don’t speak any Spanish beyond “Hola Amigo, mi nombre es Simon T. Bailey.” After my seven hour plane ride from Panama, I stood in line with seemingly hundreds of people from other parts of the world waiting to clear customs and there were no worried looks on their faces about the economy, be it local or global.

Everyone was coming to the homeland of one of the most famous citizen leaders – Eva Peron, who was portrayed by Madonna who belted out Ms. Peron’s signature revolutionary “Don’t Cry For Me Argentina” in the movie Evita. As I toodled around Argentina before flying to Lima, Peru, I couldn’t help but notice that the restaurants were packed, the Grand Pacifico Mall (the main shopping hub) was crowded and there were two McDonalds less than a mile from each other.

Someway, somehow the people here in Argentina (be it residents or tourists) didn’t get the memo, don’t read the paper, and won’t buy into the idea that if North Americans are shaking in their boots,  they should be doing the same. You may have heard the old saying “when America catches a cold, the rest of the world catches the flu.”

This was far from the truth here in the homeland of the Tango. I was having breakfast at the Four Seasons (one of the best places to stay in Argentina) where I was spoiled rotten during my stay. Sitting next to me was a couple from Atlanta who had just arrived for a week-long stay. They didn’t have a care in the world even though the airlines had lost their luggage.

Here’s the takeaway: it’s time to Flip the Script. Simply put, when everyone and everything is figuratively screaming gloom and doom, don’t buy into the hype. Walk the other way and take control of your inner steering wheel.  See it differently and act accordingly based on your vision instead of the tell-a-vision.

Deutsche Bank, in a recent USA Today article entitled A Recession in Confidence, says “this debilitating drop in optimism – if it persists – could act as a mental roadblock and rile markets. A confidence recession poses dangers to the economy, because when the masses think the future is bleak, not bright, the negative thinking manifests itself in all sorts of hunker-down behaviors that act as a drag on growth.”

Here are three ways to Flip the Script during this interesting time…

Grow the Economy of Your Mind. The greatest asset you have is your thinking. Dream Big. Envision even bigger. Right now. Yes, right now. Read books that uplift you. Magazine articles on Flip Board (Cool App in iPad) that stretch your thinking.

Surround Yourself with a Diversity of Thought. Look at your inner circle. Does everyone look like you, think like you and talk like you? If so, then you may be limited to what they know.

Learn another language. As the world is shifting right before our eyes, we need to be equipped with any and everything that will keep us relevant.  I am starting to learn Spanish and it’s only as tough as I make it. It’s time to clearly graduate from adios and muchas gracias.

Oh Brilliant One, it’s time to Flip the Script once and for all. The future awaits those who will create it moment by moment, minute by minute. Will you create it or allow something or someone else to do it for you?

Be Brilliant,

Simon

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